6 THINGS YOU NEED TO CHANGE

It’s never too late or too early to be who you are capable of being. There’s no time limit, you can simply start and stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same. You can make the best or the worst of it. It’s up to you, so make the best of it. Do things that startle you. Feel things you’ve never felt before. Spend time with people who help you grow. Live a life you’re proud of. And if you find that you’re not, have the courage to make a change. You know it’s time for a change when… 1.Fear is holding you back.– Realize that fear is the worst of it; fear is your real enemy. So get up, get out in the stormy weather of the real world, and kick fear as hard as you can right in the teeth. Do so by staring at it dead in the eyes and then walking right through it into the storm. Let the rain kiss your skin. That’s the first step. Because a wet man doesn’t fear the rain anymore. 2.You catch yourself feeding the negative.– There is always a fierce battle between two hungry forces going on inside you. One is negative – anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, lies,and hatred. The other is positive – love, joy, peace, hope, compassion, kindness, and truth. The force that wins is theone you feed the most. 3.Your mind is everywhere except right here, right now.– Some people believe the past is endless, the future is endless, and the present isa moment. But the truth is, the past is a moment, the future is a moment, and the present is endless. Make sure you’re living in it and making the most of this present moment we call life. 4.You feel pressured to be someone other than yourself.– Some people will simply not like it when you are being yourself. They will always be more comfortable with the person they imagined you to be.So when they disapprove of you, ignore them. Because what makes you happy supersedes what they think will make you happy. Do not disown your truth. Do not fear your originality. Do not live in their opinions. Decide that you matter and that there is nothing wrong with just being YOU. 5.You feel like you’re competing against everyone else.– You are in competition with no one other than yourself. You are running your own race. You have no need to play the game of being better than anyone in any way, shape, or form. Just aim to improve – to be better than you were yesterday. This is the mindset that will set you free. 6.A relationship is making you miserable.– You can’t change all the people around you, but you can change the people you choose to be around. No relationship is worth being miserable over. Sometimes you just have to erase the messages,delete the numbers, and move on. You don’t have to forget who they once were, but you dohave to accept that they aren’t the same person anymore.